I think finding the perfect man or partner in life is one of the most difficult tasks you will ever have to undertake.

I came across an online article the other day – one of those Cosmo type checklists and I thought I would make my own list of things I find key in choosing the right man.

You can compromise on so many things but the following should be non-negotiable:

1. If a man really wants to be with you, nothing will keep him away
2. Slower is better – don’t rush a relationship
3. Don’t ever settle – if you have doubts, move on
4. Trust your instincts
5. Accept that you will never be able to change a man
6. He needs to let you be you
7. You must share common core beliefs and values
8. He needs to make you laugh – nothing is sexier than a man with a sense of humor
9. Never let a man (or anyone else) define your worth
10. Never let a man disrespect you
11. His job, education and financial status does not make him superior to you and he has no right to belittle you
12. You must be able to communicate and honest communication is key
13. He needs to be your friend
14. He needs to make you feel good about yourself
15. You need to have a general sense of happiness when around him
16. He needs to bring out the best in you
17. Don’t stick around if he is manipulative and controlling
18. You must share 3 things: Lust, Attraction, Attachment

Are there any points you would like to add?