Funny Things Kids Say

Kids say the funniest of things sometimes.  Mine are a little less funny nowadays that they are older but occasionally they say something that just makes me have a quiet chuckle.

My 2 youngest Sons recently started calling me Mother – no more Mom or Mommy – unless they need something of course – then it is “Mommy, Can I….”

We were having a conversation in the car last week when we were going through the weeks schedule.  It is exam time at school so I asked my Sons what exams they had over the next few days.

Of course Son no 3 and 4 were ragging each other about one thing or the other as usual. Son no 3 was reciting what exams he had on the Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday, Friday and Monday.  He couldn’t remember what exam he had on the following Tuesday though.

So Son no 4 accuses him of not knowing anything and how can he not know what he was writing on Tuesday.

Son no 3 then says “Well Mother doesn’t know what’s for dinner tonight so I recon I am better than her”.

I just had to laugh.

More Blogger Awards

I recently received a few more blogger awards so really pleased with some of my fellow bloggers.  Here goes with the formalities….


Sisterhood of the World Bloggers Award

I have been awarded another award by fellow blogger Menopausal Mother.  I am really grateful for this one as I have always liked this award.  It somehow says more than so many other awards – it has a sense of belonging.

So the rules of the award are as follows:

  • Include award logo in blog post (Done)
  • Thank the nominee and link back to their site (Done)
  • Post 7 interesting facts about yourself (See below)
  • Pass the award to 7 deserving sisters

7 Interesting facts about my life:  I always find this difficult as interesting to me is not necessarily interesting to you.  But here goes:

  1. I speak 2 languages – English and Afrikaans
  2. I am quiet and reserved (most of the time)
  3. I don’t drink alcohol (yeah – boring old me…)
  4. I don’t smoke and have never even tried
  5. I feel like I am 35
  6. I was named after an operetta by Gilbert & Sullivan
  7. I miss son no 2 so much sometimes I feel like I could just sit and cry

Deserving sisters: (more to follow)

  1. Blair from Blairadise – she has been through such a traumatic time recently and my heart goes out to her.
  2. Holli from Holli’s Hoots and Hollers who is always so supportive and always comments on my blog
  3. Nell from The Rambling Couch Potato – Another faithful blogger
  4. Kellie from Delightfully Ludicrous
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One Lovely Blog Award

Mother of Nine kindly gave me the One Lovely Blog Award,  This is a woman I envy.  Coping with 9 children is not easy task.  She always keeps in contact and points me in various directions to help get my blog out there.

“The Rules” are:

If you are one of the nominees for the One Lovely Blog Award you must do the following:

  • Thank the person who nominated you and link to them in your post.  
  • Share seven unknown things about yourself. I’m going to cheat here and refer you to the list above 
  • Nominate other bloggers and blogs you like or admire… 15 or so if possible.  I am struggling to list 15 deserving bloggers.  I recently tried a blog hop hoping to find new blogs to read but there was not much interest.  So this will follow in time to come.
  • Contact the bloggers you nominate to let them know and to link them back to your post so they can read “The Rules,” too.

Menopausal Moments and 21st Birthdays

As parents we accept certain things. And one of them is that our children grow up and eventually leave home. 

Even though we accept this, it does not mean we like it.

Son no 2 has lived in Dubai for almost 2 years. I would be lying if I said I was totally happy with this. Has he made the right decision to start his career there – YES. Is he better of there – YES. Does he have better prospects there – YES. Is he safe there – YES.  So why a I not happy? Because I still think of him as my baby and I want to be near him and protect him and share certain memories with him.
It is his 21st birthday today. I really wanted to be there with him. I looked at the possibility of us all going to Dubai for the weekend to celebrate this milestone in his life with him. But as son no 3 is writing exams, we couldn’t make this happen.  
I brought up the possibility of me going alone. Hubby said I should go – he said I could go with pleasure, but he wouldn’t be impressed with it. So I thought it through – what would I do there alone? My son would feel obliged to spend the time with me rather than celebrating with his friends – and no young man wants his dear mommy around during these sorts of occasions. 
 It is different if we were there as a family – he wouldn’t feel obliged to spend all the time with me and keep me entertained. Then there is also hubby who would not have been impressed if I went alone. So is it worth rocking the boat?
So for the last week I have been on edge. Moody. Irritated. Annoyed.
And then yesterday we tried to talk to my son via Skype but we couldn’t hold a conversation due to a bad ADSL line. In fact I haven’t had a decent conversation with my son for weeks because of our poor ADSL line. And all of this culminated to me breaking down and just sobbing my heart out.
I am not really an emotional person. I don’t typically cry. I have the odd moody moments but these are also few and far between.  A little more regular since menopause has set in but in general I am a very sane, level headed person.
Hubby does not do well with emotional people. He has no idea what to do.  Rather than holding me and comforting me and just letting me cry it out, he tells me to pull myself together and tells me I am being silly.
So I try to pull myself together.  It doesn’t help emotionally as all I want to do is sob my heart out, except now I am doing it internally rather than letting it all out.
Then last night I am lying in bed while hubby is fast asleep.  And all I can think of was the eve of my first sons 21st birthday.  We had been out for diner.  Hubby had gone to bed and kids were getting into their pajamas.  I was tidying  up the lounge when I looked up and saw a man in a balaclava pointing a gun at me.  We were held hostage by 6 armed men that night while they went through our house and took all our valuables.
So I have found 21st birthdays to be rather a let down.  

I want to Read Your Blog: Blog Hop

I would like to read some fresh new blogs.   I don’t have the time to browse around so I thought it may be a good idea to do a Blog Hop and let you all submit your blogs and I will pop over and have a look.

No rules – just add your blog…..  While you are here – why don’t you click on some of the links yourself and you may find some new and interesting blogs to read as well.

Happy reading!

Paradise Found

I have just spent 4 days in Mozambique.  My brother is building a holiday home there and needed to check up on the building process so he offered to take me with.

It took us about 9 hours to get there by car.  Most of the journey was very pleasant but we traveled through a lot of small villages and encountered a large number of goats and cows in the road which we had to be careful of hitting.  We eventually got to the South African border post near Kozi Bay. My brother had to file the relevant papers for the car so I went to get our passports stamped.  Then it was a 10m walk to the Mozambique immigration counter.  Both operated from small container units and we were the only ones there so it was quick and easy.

This was the last time we saw a tarred road.  My brother had warned me that you needed a 4×4 vehicle and he wasn’t kidding.  The town we were going to was about 18km from the border – Ponta Malongane.  It took us about 40 minutes to get there – not quick on a sand track – single lane only.  So you have to watch out for oncoming traffic (not that there is much) as one of you then has to back up until you reach an impasse where one of you pulls over while the other one passes.

We eventually reached what I can only describe as a cross roads – the one and only – straight on to the estate he was building in (at Ponta Malongane), right to Ponta Do Ouro or left to Ponta Mamoli.

We drove straight over the cross roads into the estate.  It was absolutely beautiful.  Still no tarred roads but it felt slightly more civilized than what we had just come through.  We got to the house we were staying in – another holiday home belonging to a friend of my brothers.  I stepped inside and was just blown away by the scenery – here are some pictures taken from the patio – it was late afternoon so the sun was behind us.

I then got the tour of the house – it was very comfortable indeed.

Room I was staying in
My bed

My bathroom

Lounge

Kitchen

Entrance Hall

Entrance Hall

Dining Area

And the best of all was that this is what I would be waking up to in the morning – picture taken sitting on my bed:

We took a quick walk to the building site (his future holiday house) – not much to show at this point so I wont show you the rest of the building site:

That night we went to Ponta Do Ouro which is about 8km away and had dinner at the local fishmonger restaurant – it was dark when we got there but I took this picture the following day

 The following day my bother took me for a drive and showed me all the sights:

Drive down the main road ( the only road)

The bank (the only bank)

One of the tented units in an upmarket dive camp

A curio shop – there were loads of them and they all sold the same thing – this is also what most of the shops looked like
Local grocery store – there was a big one near the fishmonger restaurant but that burnt down about 18 months ago 
Bakery – the one and only – they sell a bread called Pao which is like a large bread roll

another picture of the main road 

local restaurant – we had dinner there one night – you sit on the benches outside

My brother also took me to one of the bars – apparently a famous bar called the R&R – well know for a drink called the R&R or Rum and Raspberry – they keep beer mugs filled with ice in the freezer and you are given one.  They then half fill it with rum and then fill it to the top with sparberry sparletta.  I managed to drink about half a mug full but as I am not a big drinker – I was already beginning to feel light headed so pushed it aside.

R&R Bar

R&R Drink

We took a drive to Ponta Momoli on the last day – not much there except for a very high end resort called the White Pearl.  It was absolutely beautiful.  They typically do not allow day visitors but we managed to pull a favor and they let us spend the afternoon at the pool.

 As you can see the views are absolutely breathtaking.

Food supplies are limited – there is nowhere to buy any fresh fruit and vegetables although you can find the odd shop that sells a few potatoes or onions and if you are very lucky, a tomato.   Restaurants typically serve chicken or prawns and you are lucky to have anything more than this on the menu.

All in all – I had an amazing time.  We spent a huge amount of time just driving around and seeing the sites.  The whole region caters for dive camps and is all very rustic and minimalist.   There is little or no crime, no buses or taxis, no shopping centres, no hotels (although there was a motel which I probably wouldn’t be caught dead in).   The local shops like to be paid in Rands (South African currency) as the closest shopping centre to buy any decent supplies from is over the border in South Africa.

I was all just breathtaking – I managed to wind down and the only thing that could have made it better was another few days there.

Harley’s and other things to drool over

It has been a challenging 10 days or so. Firstly due to our ADSL line being disconnected. This saw us struggling with 3G for a few days. The good news is that they have reconnected my ADSL – but it is so slow it is not even worth having. Trying to download a 400MB file takes about 22 hours. We have requested other service providers to test their WIMAX solutions in our area and I now await their feedback. If we are able to pick up their signal here, we will see a huge improvement in our speeds – more than double what we had before. So holding thumbs.  

I did another event on Saturday night. It was a charity function to raise money for under-privileged schools. My role was to see that it all happened – overall event liaison on site. A good friend helped me and besides one problematic supplier with a major attitude problem, the event was very successful and we had a ball – there was an amazing vibe between the suppliers and we all just worked so well as a team (Except for the one supplier of course). It was a plated dinner for 1000 guests so it was quite a big event. The theme of the event was Back to School – dress code was school uniforms. I was amazed to see 1000 guests all arrive in school uniforms – I would never have imagined middle aged people dressing this way. The décor was 60’s themed –“kitch” is probably the right term here. 
We had some Cadillac’s and some Harley’s on display – This made my day as I have a secret passion for Harley’s. I didn’t get to ride one as I was working but I spent hours drooling all over one. The Harley guys said they would take me out for a ride one Sunday. I can’t wait.  
Also had some pinball machines on display – this was a huge hit with the crew as they spent every free minute playing. 
Got home at about 4am on Sunday morning after the event – last guest left at about 2am and then we had to do the get-out during the night. The event actually took place in a Toyota car showroom – they removed all the vehicles and we took the venue over for 3 days. The showroom had to be returned by 12 noon yesterday – same condition as we found it. 
I spent yesterday on the couch relaxing and sleeping on and off all day. My body is definitely not used to working these hours. 
Today was back to my desk. I have loads of work to catch up on as my attention has been on the event. I am also going away next week with my brother to Mozambique – he is building a holiday home there. It will be nice to spend some time with my him – we see each other often but don’t ever get to just sit and talk – we always spend the time talking about work.  
Some exciting news – I have asked Carla Tomson, wife of the surfing legend Shaun Tomson to do a guest post for me. She has very kindly obliged and has sent me the post. I haven’t had a chance to read it yet but I will get to it in the next few days – so look out for this.
I also have some blog awards to accept and loads of comments to reply to – not being rude fellow bloggers – just swamped!